Today , on 14june as i got free with my household chores at three in afternoon , I sat back to massage my feet to relieve pain i am having in my sole . I picked up my phone , as usual which we all are in habit of doing and saw missed calls from my father , my sister in law and shifted my attention to the what’s app and there my sister in laws message of SUSHANT SINGH RAJPUT suicide because he is her favorite Actor . I could not trust , So i decided to confirm this news and opened Instagram which all over had this condolence messages showering and people writing the dis belief on the death .
SSR as on Instagram , is informative , intellectual and his smile was so infectious. But , then on social media we all are like that . We don’t post fears , despondents , failures , shortfalls , or Viciousness of our life or mind which we are going through .We just post happiness, love , achievements , gaiety & joys . We don’t want to look like a wobbly or rickety .
Why we do so ? Because we are afraid of ‘discernment” . Trolling or bringing someone down is a job !!!! now people really earn by doing this !!!!!!. Earlier , in my teens the scope of social media trolling was zero other then the cunning neighborhood only media houses had this Entitlement . But then also it had a scope of humanity or curtailment . Now online platforms are so huge that they troll without even understanding the state of mind a person is going through or in what context the post or matter has been posted .
Also there was a war between two platforms where people showcase there talents which is YOU-TUBE V/S TIK-TOK . You tubers think they are superior then Tiktoker’s . But what i believe both the platforms are used just for the entertainment . And tik-tok is giving a stage to everyone , like even people from suburbs post such good videos with there own creativity. Which obviously shows that talent is never biased with region , people , place , cast , color , creed , comfort , education , class , etc . Even the house wives who were once working left there jobs for families by choice or by need now had a work from home possibility . But obvious the content should not be violent or impulsive. But this war took such a toll and covered all the online content creators in it and the roasting of each other started . Followers blindly support whom they like and Abuse the other person so inadequately in comments . This beleaguered Kusha kapila (an Instagram-mer) also she got trolled or roasted so badly, that on a point she became so vulnerable and there was an emotional post from her where she was asking for kindness as being in lock-down it really hampers the mental health . Though, this girl is vigorous .And married to such an understanding partner who i think works as her strength ..Actually if any of these content creators read this post any day , I would request them to understand that the followers or likes they are counting every day , or there #instafamily , #onlinefamily #tiktokfam ,#youtubefam etc can be there power but not there strength !!!!! understand this thing that this is just a virtual power the inner strength you can get is from your close people only . From your parents , or lover or a friend. Real World HUGS still makes you feel warmer and wanted which virtual hug emoticons can never do . I have no offence i know the power of internet but more then extent , anything can ruin this universe.
World is really becoming small day by day , Internet is bringing us closer and taking our closer ones away . In a house of 4 people we have ten gadgets . Its high time , we should raise and teach our kids that failures and fears are a part of life . In school or at home we all try to teach how to celebrate success , but there’s no curriculum to celebrate fears or disasters . Why can we have a party even when our child dropped a year ? or why there cant be a celebration if he loses an important match? why cant we celebrate the appraisal not as per performance or expectation ? why no faction for an event which did not result as planned ? We need to teach children about practicing failures . “A LOSS IS A LESSON LEARNED” is what we should teach them now . Start Practicing it today so that in future a child will not die of being a failure . Don’t make such huge ideals in there eyes which are out of there distinction . Lets start posting the collapse or defeat and show or talk about you debility. Lets make this trending…….
Internet , being black evil is also an extensively influential part of our life we cannot keep our self away from it . But we need to make it just A PART of LIFE but not LIFE . We need to practice more kindness , peace and we need more humanity which is vanishing . I get scared for my little boys in these times though they are very small . No parent in this world can see the death of there child and a suicide leaves them unanswered. The void other people feels with this loss is unimaginable . But here the same hollowness was felt by the person who took such a strong step to compromise life. The amount of bravery required to end your life 10% of it is just required to pursue it .